Don't sabotage yourself.

Often our biggest obstacle in life is simply ourselves. Our mind can use it's creative powers to give us plenty to worry & fear. Those worries & fears can serve to prevent us from moving forward in life. 

In our need to avoid suffering, we'll tend to stick to the comfortable things, whether they're in our best interest or not. This is particularly common in relationships. The transition of letting people go, and attempting to seek out new people can be very daunting. We can easily decide to avoid any those activities, and just stick with what we have, because after all it's what's we know & are used to (comfort). 

If you know what you want from life, don't let anyone tell you that it can't be obtain, especially if the one telling you is yourself. We only allow others to speak to us a certain way, if it matches with the thoughts & feelings we already have.

Don't let others put you down, and DEFINITELY do not put yourself down. It's a pointless act; if you recognize something in yourself you feel needs improvement, don't wallow in self-pity, improve it.

As always, this is easier said than done, I'm not here to sell you easy, I'm here to remind you what you always knew needed to be done, and I'm just letting you know it's worth the effort, you're worth the effort.

The moment you realize that you're thoughts have such a dramatic impact on your mood, being, and ability to function, is the same moment you can begin to shift those thoughts to improve things.

In Sikh Pholosophy Baba Nanak writes 'Man Jeetay, Jag Jeet' --> "Conquered Mind, Conquered World"

It's amazing how well we function in the outside world, when we're control of our inside world.

A song hope to reach you~~

I Just Wanna Spend My Life With You

Like a dream you can't explain
Love can chase the bidding of your heart
Like the sunshine in the rain
Love can make your whole world fall apart
But i want it now
I just wanna spend my life with you
Time will show me how
Suddenly everything has turned me inside out
Suddenly loves the thing that I can't live without

You're my dream, my love, my life,
I just wanna spend my lfe with you
You're the one who makes me smile
I just wanna spend my life with you
Gotta love somehow
I just wanna spend my life with you
You can show me how
Suddenly everything has turned me inside out
Suddenly loves the thing that I can't live without

You're my dream my love, my life,
I just wanna spend my life with you
You're the one who makes me smile
I just wanna spend my lfe with you.

What have you done to me
Is this how it's meant to be?
Can't control this feeling in my heart
I can see paradise
Glowing inside your eyes
And I know you feel it in your heart
But I want it now
I just wanna spend my life with you
Time will show me how
Suddenly everything has turned me inside out
Suddenly loves the thing that I can't live without

You're my dream, my love, my life,
I just wanna spend my life with you
You're the one who makes me smile
I just wanna spend my life with you

Oh... Love is a crazy thing
Something that you wanna see
And the worlds like deep inside your soul
When somebody comes along
Together you sing this song
You just let the music take control
And I want it now
I just wanna spend my life with you
Time will show me how
Suddenly everything has turned me inside out
Suddenly loves a thing that I can't live without

You're my dream, my love, my life,
I just wanna spend my life with you
You're the one who makes me smile
I just wanna spend my life with you.

Power VS Power

There once was a great king named Harnakash.After a long devotion to loadr  He was given a gift from Lord Shiva that he will not be killed inside or outside. He could not be killed by a man or by an animal. He could not be killed in daytime, or nightime he could nt be kill on land or sky and no any weapon could ever kill him

.He became a cruel ruler and made everyone chant his name instead of Ram (God).  His own son Prahlad refused to chant his name, but rather he always chanted on Ram. Harnakash made many attempts to have his son killed, but every time the child was miraculously saved. He became even more angry and had a pillar lit on fire with a huge flame. He told Prahlad "You don't chant my name like everyone else, you say that God is in everything. Well if God is in everything than God is also in the pillar. Go over to the pillar and give it a hug if it is also your God." Prahlad made a prayer to God "Oh, my beloved, please save me. You are in my heart and I am always with you." Prahlad, with his pure faith, went over to the white hot pillar and gave it a hug. By divine grace he wasn't burnt at all, and hearing the prayer of this devoted child,

 God assumed a form and burst out of the pillar.  God Himself took form and suddenly appeared on the scene. Half man and half lion. The lower part of His body was that of a man, but His head, chest, and arms were those of a lion. God in the form of a lion, grabbed Harnaakash and put him across His lap. He then said, "Harnaakash, do you know who I am?"

"Yes Lord."
"Answer my questions. Is it day or is it night?" 
"Neither, oh God, it is dusk." 
"Are we inside or outside?"
"Neither, Lord, we are on the threshold of the palace." 
"Is it land or sky ?" 
"It is in between, oh Lord."
"Am I a man or an animal?"
"You are neither, oh Supreme One."
Then with His huge claws, Narayan, God as the man lion, killed the evil King

life to live

I've always come to a realisation that life brings us a lot of new things to experience. it depends on how we take it.. it could be a huge challenge or maybe a surprise as well..  we humans want everything to be as perfect as how the water in a river flows.. However, in reality it is not that way.. why??  

Ma

with the blessing of god the first word that utter from my mouth Maaa
there is no other bigger  relationship bigger then the bound btw a child and mother..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vN3UypDDXHQ

the power of silent

THE POPE AND HARBINDER SINGH

About a century or two ago, the Pope decided that all the Sikhs had to leave Italy. Naturally there was a big uproar from the Sikh community. So the Pope made a deal. He would have a religious debate with a member of the Sikh community.

If the Sikh won, the Sikhs could stay.

If the Pope won, the Sikhs would leave.

The Sikhs realized that they had no choice. So they picked a middle-aged man named Harbinder Singh to represent them. Harbinder asked for one condition to the debate - neither side would be allowed to talk.

The Pope agreed.

The day of the great debate came.

Harbinder Singh and the Pope sat opposite each other for a full minute.

Then the Pope raised his hand and showed three fingers.
Harbinder looked back at him and raised one finger.

The Pope waved his fingers in a circle around his head.
Harbinder pointed to the ground where he sat.

The Pope pulled out a wafer and a glass of wine.
Harbinder pulled out an apple.

The Pope stood up and said,
"I give up. This man is too Good. The Sikhs can stay."

An hour later, the cardinals were gathered around the Pope asking him what had happened.

The Pope said, "First I held up three fingers to represent the Holy Trinity.
He responded by holding up one finger to remind me that there was still One God common to both our religions.

Then, I waved my finger around me to show him that God was all around us.
He responded by pointing to the ground and showing that God was also right here with us.

Then,

I pulled out the wine and wafer to show that God absolves us from our sins.
He pulled out an apple to remind me of original sin.

He had an answer for everything. What could I do?"

Meanwhile, the Sikh community had crowded around Harbinder Singh.

"What happened?" they asked.

"Well," said Harbinder,

"First he said to me that the Sikhs had three days to get out of here.
I told him not one of us was leaving.

Then he told me that this whole city would be cleared of Sikhs.
I let him know that we were staying right here."

"Yes, and then???" asked the crowd.

"I don't know", said Harbinder,
"He took out his lunch, and I took out mine!"